Watch your back

Sometimes, even your best friends, can be your worst enemies. You may want to reconsider little fights you have encountered during the years, yet a simple act of deceit will cause the destruction of your relationship. Instead of defending you when you are down, some of them are even first ones to spread your flaws to the world. Over time, this character of your fiends or “frienemies” then develop, with you barely noticing it.

Giving all of your trust and integrity to your considered “friends,” you’re confident that they won’t blurt out your secrets, your pride and most importantly, your dignity. Time has helped you establish the relationship that you have now, yet it could also be one of the factors that you’ll account for destroying it. Your friendship turns out to be brittle, after all that you have done to make it strong. You’ll end up having no real friends at all.

Just a piece of advice:
Being careful in maintaining friendships won’t hurt. After all, you’ll never know what’s going to happen next – especially behind you.


9 Responses to “Watch your back”

  1. 1 YNA August 31, 2007 at 10:48 pm

    That could be held true. What I think, though, is that no matter what happens, that person that we befriended is still inside that backstabbing assh*le/b*tch. 😉

  2. 2 karla September 1, 2007 at 2:28 pm

    wait lang, magcocomment pa ko arnel.

    hay nako. totoo yan. Mas nakakatakot nga kapag close friend mo yung naging kaaway mo, dahil alam niya ang lahat tungkol sayo. Mas marami siyang pedeng gawin sayo, keysa sa born enemy mo. hay..wag na lang natin sila tularan o patulan. Just live the way you want, hindi mo kakailanganin ang ganyang klaseng mga kaibigan.

  3. 3 sherma September 1, 2007 at 2:47 pm

    true naman that your worst enemy would be your best friend. I have my best friend but we know we have to reserve some things to ourselves na lang. Naiinitindihan naman namin yun, eh. Minsan, hindi naman kailangang sabihin lahat sa isang friend. Ako, I trust my friends, but it takes more than trust para masabi ko sa kanila yung mga bagay na alam ko, hindi basta-basta dapat ishare kahit kanino.

    Pero hindi talaga maiiwasan ang mga backstabbers. Nabubuhay talaga sila at mahirap alisin… parang mga ipis… hahaha!

  4. 4 pam September 1, 2007 at 6:18 pm

    that’s true. 😀

    its just a pain when you have those kinds of friends. 😦

    i’m fine. hehe. 😀 okey lang yun. actually i’m busy as well. just taking time off the hectic life. 😀

    take care!

  5. 5 Mike September 1, 2007 at 11:26 pm

    i don’t know. a lot of things keep on coming out of my mouth, and oftentimes it’s very spontaneous. that is why i get into trouble quite frequently, haha, but i’m not a war freaky person. i just like to express my thoughts.

    i’m definitely back for good.

  6. 6 shinjishinji September 2, 2007 at 5:10 pm

    backstabbing is inevitable, man. At one point in our lives, we all do it even inside our heads lang.

  7. 7 aya September 2, 2007 at 9:36 pm

    well, its not unusual to see backstabbing friends. meron na niyan kahit saan sa mundo.

  8. 8 inflickted September 3, 2007 at 12:53 am

    That’s why I am sometimes considered an introvert because I am a very cautious person and at times keep to myself, which can be misinterpreted.I just hope betrayal won’t happen to me.

  9. 9 cars September 3, 2007 at 7:39 pm

    so true.

    one of the reasons why i don’t easily trust people..

    but i’m fortunate enough not to have experienced the whole
    backstabbed-by-my-bestfriend scenario. hihi. 🙂

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